I feel like I should have kids but idk if I’m ready

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2022.01.18 11:22 NoOutsideTooCold I feel like I should have kids but idk if I’m ready

So I feel like we should have kids. I’m 25 and my husband is 33. We are financially stable, healthy, and my entire family keeps telling me I should probably get started because of our ages.
The thing is we live out of state so we’d be doing this alone and we are renting. Also, I wanted to go back to school and get a degree (I couldn’t go when I was younger because my parents couldn’t co-sign). Everyone keeps telling me that I don’t need to get a degree since my husband makes more than enough money to support us and I can be a SAHM.
I don’t know if I want to be a SAHM… I talked to my husband and he said the last thing he’s concerned about is his age (his dad had the last of his siblings at 38 and his mom had her last at 42) but I kind of worry about it. He said if I didn’t think about his age, what age would I be, and I said well, ideally I want a degree and a house before having kids. So he said maybe we should focus on that instead of our ages.
Idk I get worried though. What if those things don’t happen until I’m 30… then we will be having kids in our 40’s…idk. I feel like I’m not really ready either. I spent a lot of time helping raise my siblings and it’s so much work and sacrifice. Idk if I’m emotionally mature enough to do that right now. But I feel like I need to either choose being childfree or have a kid right now. Ugh. This is hard.
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2022.01.18 11:22 NeoProductionsUnl When is a Deathclaw like a goldfish?

Amusing story inspired in part by last night :)
I've been playing since day one and have been in and out but always having fun. I'd play during the day (worked from home as a programmer since even before COVID :) ) or after we put our little one to bed. At some point, my then-four-year-old wanted to cuddle and watch me play, so we'd play earlier and I'd go on low-drama, low-action junk runs. Beat up robots, squash bugs, fix up Gorge Junkyard a bit, and the like. She LOVED it. I'd go on some dailies with a friend of mine, and we started having to put him on speaker so she could talk with him too while she called out interesting junk for us to snag. Before One Wasteland, we hit a reasonable level where nothing could touch us, so I let her wander around the camp and the aforementioned junkyard and plink stuff with a crossbow. She loved it.
At some point, we collectively discovered tamed animals, and had enough levels built up to shuffle points (back when we had to do that to change SPECIAL) and pick up the Animal Friend and Wasteland Whisperer perks (when we all thought we needed both) and spent a lot of hours roaming the potential spawn sites looking for an animal to tame. She had her heart set on a sloth, a "sloth buddy." Never found ANY tameable spawn, but we found a couple Mire sites where sloth spawned automatically so we'd visit them when we were in the area and she'd coo over them for a few minutes before demanding we return to the task of exterminating "blood zombies" (her name for Scorched).
For Christmas, I got some Microsoft credit and a Kishi Razer and I picked back up with '76 after last playing a bit sometime last summer. Being able to go handheld with it was a huge boon to being able to play; didn't need to share the TV, and my gaming den in the winter never heats well so I don't play up there a lot. Daughter, now 7, was geeked too and there's a lot of nights we cuddle on the couch while I do the daily challenges I can in and around camp. She takes over for a bit too, I'd given her one of the Shelters for "her room" and she's always rearranging things, doctoring it up, and having a blast building things out. After a bit of playing, we decided to revisit finding a pet; we have the brahmin (she named Chocolate & Vanilla), the chicken coop, we have the Raider Punk ally, and we have a Collectron (Nukatron), so a pet was kind of the last thing we needed to populate the camp. So we dug, read up on the changes since we last tried, found a few good Reddit posts about tameable spawn tracking, and found a spawn site out of the way where it wasn't likely to often be tripped by someone else. And we started hunting. Went through a number of interactions over a few hours, including some scary Legendary Sheepsquatch encounters we were NOT expecting (and ran for the hills because of it) before we finally landed a spawn...a deathclaw. "OH! HE'S SO COOL!" she replied. Should we tame him, for our pet? We can only have one, and if we pick him we don't get a sloth buddy. "That's OK, we have a sloth buddy in the swamp! We can bring him (the deathclaw) home!!"
And so that's the story of how we adopted "Fred", our pet deathclaw. She sits down when I play, "Are you at our camp? Where's my Fred? I want to see my Fred!" and I find him; he's usually roaming the field next to camp. We're setup across from Gorge Junkyard still, have been since like two months into playing, between the tree and the campsite alongside the road. Fred has been a great protector of the camp; charges the Mole Miners, Cultists and Scorched who spawn at the campsite up the road, usually picks off a few things during the Defend Gorge Junkyard events, and occasionally picks a fight with the robots in Gorge when its unclaimed. She loves it. "Silly Fred!" she laughs as he barrels across the field and takes a Blood Eagle's head clean off.
So, the title. "When is a deathclaw like a goldfish?" I've been grateful that Fred is a deathclaw and sturdy. But, it hasn't been without issue. Don't know how, but I think someone managed to kill Fred even with Pacifism on. I was a level 19X at the time, just logged in, everything was cool, and was checking the vendor of a camp up the road when someone nearby flagged as "Wanted!" I check the map, they're in the area, just up the road between my camp and this one I'm at. They roll into this camp, start shooting at stuff and pop away. Annoying, but OK. So I bebop back to my camp and lo and behold, Fred is dead. SONNOVA... It was late, daughter was to bed, so I go back to the hunting site I mentioned and just kept trying...took a couple hours and some weird spawns (scorched sloth, scorched yuogui, mole rat) and what appeared to be a tameable glowing deathspawn (spoiler; it was NOT tameable; yikes) before a basic deathclaw appeared. Tagged him, sent him to camp, and about twenty minutes later he showed up right as rain :) She never knew her beloved Fred was replaced. Then, last night, kiddo's to bed, I log in to grab some of the daily resets from Crater and Foundation, and poor Fred's corpse is lying on my porch; he just spawned dead~ Grumbling, I ran back out to the hunting ground and only had a few encounters (a raider needing ammo, a settler looking for Foundation, and a tameable snallygaster) before I came across a diseased deathclaw. I tagged him, sent him to camp, and twenty minutes later "New Fred" was home sweet home :)
SO, I'm pulling that classic parent switcharoo, but with deathclaws instead of goldfish. Yea, he's digital; yea, its always a new instance so nothing ever was "the same one" we tagged that day, but there's still that sense of continuity. After school today, she's going to want to sit down and play games, and while I play FO76 she'll want to check on her Fred and...at least he'll be there waiting for her :)
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2022.01.18 11:22 chinchin420blazeit This tempered rathian is gonna be the laughing stock of the monster afterlife lmao

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2022.01.18 11:22 MrYondaime Sentindo que minha vida amorosa é "controlada" pela minha ex

Não que ela controle diretamente, mas indiretamente. Tivemos uma relação à distancia que foi cansativa emocionalmente, mas claramente a gente era aquele casal "feito um pro outro". Só que a distância não deixou a gente ficar junto. Ela terminou comigo por causa da distância já faz uns 4 anos e já fiz de tudo pra tirar essa mulher da cabeça, mas não dá.
E por isso eu acho que ela "controla" minha vida amorosa. Porque em todos os outros relacionamentos que eu tive/tenho depois de namorar com ela sempre fico com essa pulga atrás da orelha me falando "vai que você consegue ir morar perto dela" ou "vai que algum dia vocês voltam". Ainda mais que vou terminar a faculdade num curso que me facilitaria de mudar de cidade.
Um acontecimento que exemplifica muito o que eu tô falando: A gente tinha parado de se falar por quase um ano e eu já tava saindo com outra mina, perto de pedir ela em namoro. Mas aí um dia eu recebi uma curtida dela no Instagram, do nada. Claramente ela tava me stalkeando. E só de ver uma merda de uma curtida minha mente automaticamente pensou "vou terminar com a mina que eu tô ficando". Nesse dia eu vi que nem mesmo ficando sem falar com ela por anos isso vai passar. É surreal.
Hoje em dia a gente conversa vez ou outra como como amigo, ela sai com outras pessoas, eu saio com outras pessoas, ela nunca fica jogando indiretas ou me dando esperanças, mas fica claro que ela ainda gosta de mim. Mesmo assim minha vida amorosa ainda gira em torno da questão "será que ainda rola ou não?". Acho que só vou me livrar disso se ela se casar ou falar pra mim diretamente que nunca mais vai rolar nada, ou se um de nós morrer.
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I mean regions, countries, and geographical areas.
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2022.01.18 11:22 LividMatter4658 Why do i always get the urge to cheat on my ⅔girlfriend, but ONLY when i am drunk?

I never acted upon that urge, but when i am drunk, my fucking brain always says "comon man, go and cheat, you are 23 and young, it doesnt matter, youll be faitful when you are married".
When i am sober, i cant even look at another woman. When i am drunk? Fucking hell.
I used to be with a lot of women since i was 18, and only a year ago found someone that is the realisation of all my fantasies. But the adrenaline is gone. And when i am drunk, i want adrenaline, and new conquests make tht happen.
Why am i like this? How do i fucking solve it?
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2022.01.18 11:22 Leefsx94 My head canon about mystery fruit.

I have had this thought for a long time that the Red Line is a creation of a previous awakened user of the Gomu Gomu no Mi. Then with this chapter being released I thought it was possible that they are talking about the Gomu Gomu no mi's awakening but it is actually the Matter Matter no Mi which would explain why Luffy can stretch, but he should also be able to make himself dense and even become intangible to a sense letting matter pass through him. But it is connected to Zuenisha by the previous user of the fruit used to it make Zuenisha they way it is. It would also give an explanation to how the Red Line came to be if it is actually just a natural mountainous region and why the Gorosei would be so eager to have it. Though knowing that the Lunarians lived above the Red Line makes me question my theory quite a bit. I don't know man Oda puts my mind in a blender everytime he cuts over to Mariejois but I love reading the community theories and coming up with my own.
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